Learn To Pick Your Battles
It’s so easy to focus on the petty things in life. He forgot to take out the trash, or she’s watching her show on TV while the big game is on. If you choose to focus on these smaller things day after day, the feelings aren’t going to stay small! They are going to snowball out of control until the emotions and resentment are running so high you can’t tell which end is up.
If you choose which arguments are most important to start, they will be easier to take care of. Choosing your battles is extremely important in maintaining a happy, healthy marriage. If one of you is keeping a record of every tiny thing that goes wrong — stop!
