Don’t Ignore The Problem Areas Of Your Marriage
Just a quick word today, I was reminded of this while talking to a friend recently… While you do need to be patient and make sure you communicate things the right way, you don’t want to completely ignore things problem areas of your marriage either. Now, this is different than “not sweating the small stuff.” Letting go of those things is very healthy. If there are real issues, however, you should not ignore them or let them go.
It might be that your spouse is just not ready at this point in time to make those changes. If that’s the case, you need to decide whether or not you can wait it out a bit longer. Another idea is to take a completely different approach. If something bothers you that much, there will be a way to fix it, it’s just a matter of finding the method that will connect with your partner.
